By Olumide T. Agunbiade
15-year-old Hannah who lives in Akoka area of Lagos
State, Nigeria did not grow up like every other child. She has been a maid
since she was nine, has cane scars all over her body and had been abandoned by
her parents since she was five.
Paul, 10,
happens to see his parents only on Sundays even though they live under the same
roof. His parent leaves for work very early in the morning before he wakes up
and returns when he is asleep. Also, Empress and her brother, John was born
with rare form of dwarfism. Their parents abandoned them in an institution for
children with disabilities because people were always staring and laughing at
them.
Many
children with good start in life which encompasses adequate nutrition, health
care, hygienic environment and proper upbringing may not understand the
pathetic stories of Peter, Empress, Hannah and Paul like those that are
suffering from similar or worse disabilities or have been subjected to any form
of abuse and neglect as a child.
For years,
Psychiatrists, have known that children who are abused or neglected run a high
risk of developing mental problems later in life. From anxiety, depression to
substance abuse and suicide.
The
connection is not surprising, but it raises a crucial scientific question: Does
the abuse cause biological changes that may increase the risk for these
problems?
Over the
past decade or so, researchers at McGill University in Montreal, led by Michael
Meaney, have shown that affectionate mothering alters the expression of genes
in animals, allowing them to dampen their Physiological response to stress.
Now, for the
first time, they have direct evidence that the same system is at work in
humans. In a study of people who committed suicide published in 2009 in the
journal ‘Nature Neuroscience,’ researchers in Montreal reported that people who
were abused or neglected as children showed genetic alteration that likely made
them more biologically sensitive to stress.
The findings
help clarify the biology behind the wounds of a difficult childhood and hint at
what constitutes resilience in those able to shake off the wounds.
The importance
of Child Rights and development has been underscored by many parents, the
government and the international community. This can be attested to by the
clarion calls to create awareness on the needs for Child Rights issues to be recognized
as a self standing set of constitution in the mainstreaming process, rather
than be a substitute under wider efforts to mainstream overall human rights.
Every child
has the right to a good start in life which encompasses adequate nutrition,
health care, hygienic environment, participation and protection. The protection
rights give a child a right to equality, privacy, education, development and
protection against sexual abuse and exploitation.
On the issue
of participation, a child has the right to share in the issue of making
decisions which affects his life and the life of the community which he or she
is part of. Same way, a child has the right to develop through freedom of
thought, conscience and religion, the right to play and arise under the administration
of juvenile justice.
In this
regard, the Child Right Act was promulgated in 2003 among other things incorporates
all the rights and responsibilities of a child and specifies the duties and
obligations of government, parents, organization and other authorities to the
child.
For most
parents, a greater part of their waking hours is devoted to work. Some work to
live while others live to work. As a parent, which situation will make you more
nervous—knowing that your children run a high risk of developing mental problem
due to neglect or that people die at or because of their work?
As a matter
of fact, both activities involve a measure of danger and both require a maximum
level of responsibility. For parents who do not know, a child is a person under
the age of 18 year and children are the future of any nation. Therefore, they
need to be nurtured and assisted to develop into responsible and productive
adults, who will take over the running of the affairs of the society later.
However, as
children, they are physically, mentally and emotionally immature and,
therefore, require special safeguards and care. This includes appropriate
protection, both before and after birth, in order to enable them develop a full
and balanced personality, within the family environment and an atmosphere of
happiness, love and understanding, in conditions of freedom, dignity and security.
Such requirements make the child quite unique to the point that the normal
rights guaranteed to adults are not specific enough to cater for these needs of
children. Hence the need for Child’s Rights Law.
In Lagos
State, the Child’s Rights Law which came into force on 28th May,
2007, is a law which incorporates all the rights and responsibilities of
children, and consolidates all laws which provide for the protection and care
of children in the State into one single legislation.
The Law
recognizes the rights of children, restores their confidence and self-esteem
and improves their status. It will also enable children, including children
with disabilities, to enjoy their rights fully, as it provides special measures
for their care and protection. The Law also demands that in all actions
concerning the child, his or her best interest, welfare and well-being must be
of paramount consideration.
Under the
law, parents, guardians or others responsible for the upbringing of the child
must provide care, maintenance, proper upbringing, education, guidance,
discipline and socialization. These are required for equipping the child, to
enable him or her secure his or her assimilation, appreciation and observance
of his or her responsibilities.
The responsibilities of
children under the law is to respect their parents, elders and superiors at all
times, and assist them in case of need, work towards the cohesion of their
families and communities, contribute to the moral well being of the society, as
well as social and national solidarity and respect the ideals of democracy,
freedom, equality, humanness, honesty and justice for all persons.
Hence, the
government has the duty to protect and provide good things for children in need
in the country, help families to take good care of them, provide a policy
framework that will ensure the rights of the child and provide medical and
health care. Besides, all sectors of the society, including government and the
people, will benefit from the production of well rounded and self-confident
future leaders.
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