By Olumide T. Agunbiade
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A sad Nigerian girl |
Paul, 10, happens to see his parents only on Sundays even
though they live under the same roof. His parent leaves for work very early in
the morning before he wakes up and returns when he is asleep. Also, Empress and
her brother, John was born with rare form of dwarfism. Their parents abandoned
them in an institution for children with disabilities because people were always
staring and laughing at them.
Many children with good start in life which encompasses
adequate nutrition, health care, hygienic environment and proper upbringing may
not understand the pathetic stories of Peter, Empress, Hannah and Paul like
those that are suffering from similar or worse disabilities or have been
subjected to any form of abuse and neglect as a child.
For years, Psychiatrists, have known that children who are
abused or neglected run a high risk of developing mental problems later in life.
From anxiety, depression to substance abuse and suicide.
The connection is not surprising, but it raises a crucial
scientific question: Does the abuse cause biological changes that may increase
the risk for these problems?
Over the past decade or so, researchers at McGill University
in Montreal, led by Michael Meaney, have shown that affectionate mothering
alters the expression of genes in animals, allowing them to dampen their
Physiological response to stress.
Now, for the first time, they have direct evidence that the
same system is at work in humans. In a study of people who committed suicide
published in 2009 in the journal ‘Nature Neuroscience,’ researchers in Montreal
reported that people who were abused or neglected as children showed genetic
alteration that likely made them more biologically sensitive to stress.
The findings help clarify the biology behind the wounds of a
difficult childhood and hint at what constitutes resilience in those able to
shake off the wounds.
The importance of Child Rights and development has been
underscored by many parents, the government and the international community.
This can be attested to by the clarion calls to create awareness on the needs
for Child Rights issues to be recognized as a self standing set of constitution
in the mainstreaming process, rather than be a substitute under wider efforts
to mainstream overall human rights.
Every child has the right to a good start in life which
encompasses adequate nutrition, health care, hygienic environment,
participation and protection. The protection rights give a child a right to
equality, privacy, education, development and protection against sexual abuse
and exploitation.
On the issue of participation, a child has the right to share
in the issue of making decisions which affects his life and the life of the
community which he or she is part of. Same way, a child has the right to
develop through freedom of thought, conscience and religion, the right to play
and arise under the administration of juvenile justice.
In this regard, the Child Right Act was promulgated in 2003
among other things incorporates all the rights and responsibilities of a child
and specifies the duties and obligations of government, parents, organization
and other authorities to the child.
For most parents, a greater part of their waking hours is
devoted to work. Some work to live while others live to work. As a parent,
which situation will make you more nervous—knowing that your children run a
high risk of developing mental problem due to neglect or that people die at or
because of their work?
As a matter of fact, both activities involve a measure of
danger and both require a maximum level of responsibility. For parents who do
not know, a child is a person under the age of 18 year and children are the
future of any nation. Therefore, they need to be nurtured and assisted to
develop into responsible and productive adults, who will take over the running
of the affairs of the society later.
However, as children, they are physically, mentally and
emotionally immature and, therefore, require special safeguards and care. This
includes appropriate protection, both before and after birth, in order to
enable them develop a full and balanced personality, within the family
environment and an atmosphere of happiness, love and understanding, in
conditions of freedom, dignity and security. Such requirements make the child
quite unique to the point that the normal rights guaranteed to adults are not
specific enough to cater for these needs of children. Hence the need for Child’s
Rights Law.
In Lagos State, the Child’s Rights Law which came into force
on 28th May, 2007, is a law which incorporates all the rights and
responsibilities of children, and consolidates all laws which provide for the
protection and care of children in the State into one single legislation.
The Law recognizes the rights of children, restores their
confidence and self-esteem and improves their status. It will also enable
children, including children with disabilities, to enjoy their rights fully, as
it provides special measures for their care and protection. The Law also
demands that in all actions concerning the child, his or her best interest,
welfare and well-being must be of paramount consideration.
Under the law, parents, guardians or others responsible for
the upbringing of the child must provide care, maintenance, proper upbringing,
education, guidance, discipline and socialization. These are required for
equipping the child, to enable him or her secure his or her assimilation,
appreciation and observance of his or her responsibilities.
The
responsibilities of children under the law is to respect their parents, elders
and superiors at all times, and assist them in case of need, work towards the
cohesion of their families and communities, contribute to the moral well being
of the society, as well as social and national solidarity and respect the
ideals of democracy, freedom, equality, humanness, honesty and justice for all
persons.
Hence, the government has the duty to protect and provide
good things for children in need in the country, help families to take good
care of them, provide a policy framework that will ensure the rights of the
child and provide medical and health care. Besides, all sectors of the society,
including government and the people, will benefit from the production of well
rounded and self-confident future leaders.
A captivating and educative piece from a very good writer. Please keep it up the sky is the limit.
ReplyDeleteA must read for every parents, guardian and the government! Good job blogger!
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